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This subject seems to pop up quite often and while I may be a “Miss Know It All” on many other subjects I certainly think this is one where I am the resident expert.
I have taken well over 10,000 phone sex calls and interact with my customers with my voice, video, pictures and cam. I am customizable audio pornography if not visual as well but because of my unique situation I also am given the opportunity to get to know the men who call me.
My married callers can be split into three different categories and the first being the smallest percentage and the other two are about equal.
1. Married men who are acting out situations they are no longer getting at home.
2. Married men who are acting out fantasies they know their wife would disapprove of or be disgusted by.
3. Acting out fantasies that are not possible to do in reality.
The first groups is the only one any wife should have any worry about because these are men who are actively seeking something the wife no longer gives some times it is something as small as showing interest in what ever it is she is doing with him sexually or worse she quit giving head after they got married or worst the sex has stopped completely. Mind you this is the the smallest percentage of my callers but the most worrisome because they are seeking something they were getting and no longer are for whatever reason that they desire to have back..
Now you ladies can scoff all you like but I know scores of women who did everything before they got married to get that hook in from sucking dick to anal and then once the trolling was over and the big fish caught they cut it all off. Which is really unfair and a big misrepresentation of who you are other than a manipulative bitch.
Mind you, this doesn’t always happen and is not always the reason BUT most of the time this is the exact scenario for this type of married guy. Shame on you!
The second type has fantasies he knows his mate will not approve of like perhaps he decided he likes to wear women's clothes knowing his woman loves manly men, he likes some anal action and she has already said “no way”, he discovered some latent homosexuality and wants to explore it but knows she would not be into it at all if not threatened by it. There are so many different fetishes he could have found a liking for knowing his wife will not approve or think less of him because of so he chooses to call me and talk about it and or act it out instead of revealing his secret, facing her derision or worse she wants to pour money into marriage counseling when all he ever had to do was call me, all I am is audio/visual masturbation.
I believe I am not only the easy way out but the smart way out.
Speaking of masturbation, for loiuseThel , the motivation for this article I will respond to this comment: “ I think the problem is that many times it turns into an activity for one... “
Masturbation is in fact and activity meant for one to enjoy most often alone and pornography targets men not women(even playgirl is targeted for gay men) for this activity. There is nothing wrong with masturbation with or with out any type of pornography. If it is a threat to a women that is her problem considering the activity is NORMAL.
The third type is the man whose fantasies cannot be acted out with in the realms of legality, good health or reality. Examples of this would be(some may cross over into more than one category) :
Legality: Cannibalism, castration
Good health: Bug Catching(getting an STD including but not limited to HIV) Gift Giving (the same in reverse) Crucifixion
Reality: Aliens, Robots, Celestial or Demonic beings, Cryogenics
Needless to say not only can these not be done in the man’s reality but their wife would probably freak out if she knew which begs to reason if she did know would she have the imagination, desire or interest to be able to provide him with an even a satisfactory role play?
Keeping these three types of married men who call in mind; know they choose me for more mundane reasons like the fact I will not give them an STD(even if in fantasy they want one), I will not call them or ask if they love me, I cannot get pregnant and there is no possibility for them to leave you for me, In fact what they all have in common is they want their marriage to work and they all pay me to go away.
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Hum interesting. I would never want to do your job but then again I would never want to be a dental hygienist, a roofer or a hairdresser. |
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My question to the 'sexpert' Holly. Why would you not think it possible for a man - any man - to be any, or all, of the 3 at any given time or another ???? |
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Hmm, no wonder you hate Twilight. Trash isn't usually into that kind of stuff. :-) |
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You know you are certainly a cowardly slut. Someone doesn't like Twilight so you act like an asshole. I like authors who can actually write and the fact that so many teens love this shit, is a perfect example of where our education system is currently and sinking deeper into : the sewer. I am with Stephan King on this one, According to Stephen, “Both Rowling and Meyer, they’re speaking directly to young people… The real difference is that Jo Rowling is a terrific writer and Stephenie Meyer can’t write worth a darn. She’s not very good.” She sucks. Go back to your safe little playground where everyone agrees with you and stay there. By the way it is really bad manners to block someone and continue talking about them on your blog and worse to come to their blog and show every one what an immature, worthless trash talking dirt bag you are. Toddle off Mi' Dear. |
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Further, dumb shit, it is one thing to have typo's and misspellings in your articles and comments but quite another in your blog title dipshit " Miss Ellehcims AdviseMove along only educated sluts are allowed around here not morons! |
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Great, another spammer... bummer... |
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I'm somewhat limited I guess, but I never understood how phone sex can replace the real thing. I never had the desire to call someone to "talk dirty". Sex on the phone is really not my thing... I think it could be because it needs intense visualization and I'm not very good at that. I would have a hard time imagining having sex in my head. I would go as far as not liking strip clubs or bars either... What's the point of looking at woman, when I can not have them, or act out on the desire when I look at them... What is all the obsession with the lapdance anyway? A woman turns you on and then leaves you like that, and you even have to pay for it... I can have that at home for free... hehe... Looking at porn on the computer is a little better, as there is visual and audio stimulation, and things can get finished in confort and privacy... but I still would not replace it with the real thing. |
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hmmmm interesting..... so what would be the categories for single callers?.... or better yet....why would a single man call for phone sex rather than watch free porn on the internet...... hmmmm very interesting and something i have never thought about before but i wonder if i could do to my partner, over the phone, what you would do if he rang you.....practice makes perfect maybe i should try it with him. |
As a previous sex worker myself (stripper and occasional escort) I can confirm everything you've said above, and more.
Since my services were rendered in person, the situation was slightly different, but not by much.
Men who frequent strip clubs generall fall into similar cateogories:
1) The dude that has something 'wrong' with him, something that prevents him from 'getting any.' He could be fat, or ugly, or handicapped, or just socially awkward/shy. These men need stimulation too, and often the only way they can get it is to pay a provider.
2) The married man who is either being sexually neglected at home, or whose wife has let herself go after marriage, no longer keeping herself fit or well groomed, and no longer provokes his desire. Most of these guys don't actually cheat on their spouses, but like to look at and interact with pretty young women on occasion, to be the center of their attention, and made to feel special.
3) The rich and powerful, married or not. These are men who have too much to lose to involve themselves in an affair or, if single, are too busy to cultivate an intimate relationship. They're the big spenders, and yes, they pay not for your services, but for you to go away after those services are rendered. They don't have to call you the next day, offer any pretense of love, or worry about you stalking them, calling them at work or home, or making any other demands on their time.
While what you do is legal, what I did often was not, but we really need to grow up as a nation and legalize prostitution. It's going to happen anyway, and it always has. With legalization, at least it becomes safer for both parties, and the health of the workers can be monitored.
Good article, holly, and very informative!