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A Homosexual Predator
So I have written many a blog in support of homosexuality but I thought I should share a story of a sexual predator I knew before I was really old enough, you know, old enough might not be the right word for it, perhaps unused enough to know what was going on was wrong. I was sixteen years old and living in Norfolk Virginia and spending much time in Virginia beach. I lived with a boyfriend though at the time I was married to someone else. No, I wasn't cheating! Ha! Caught you thinking the worst. No , my then husband and I had a an agreement, we married with the understanding that the legal document was entered into for the sole purpose of emancipation, of deeming me a legal adult. I say that was the understanding but sometimes the love struck hear the words and translate them into something else entirely different, but that is another blog for another day. Suffice to say the actual married life lasted six weeks thought the document stayed in effect muchlonger.
That said I was living in Norfolk with my boy friend, another sailor, who I loved very much for all the wrong reasons, again another story all together. He and I lived in an apartment that had once been a motel, it still counts as a motel when it is only two stories right? I would guess it had 12 apartments on top and twelve on the bottom and was a rectangle with a pool in the middle and was basically party central for couples. Many a person jumped off that second floor into the pool. Each apartment opened facing the outdoor pool so it was very easy to spy on the Joneses.
There was never a vacant apartment, as soon as someone moved out another quickly followed. Heck sometimes you would see stuff going in and out simultaneously.
It was rare to get a tenant who was not Navy but admittedly there were a couple and it is one of those that is the the focus of this article. His name Was Carl. Of course his name has been changed to protect both the innocent and the guilty. Carl was a thirty something, handsome, self proclaimed homosexual man who was extremely hot and quite a temptation for the young, neglected navy wives who's husbands were at sea. He presented a special challenge to them because he was not young , dumb and full of cum like all of the others they usually chose to warm the empty spot on their bed and on top of that he was gay but took special pleasure in teasing the young ladies.
Carl enjoyed their affection, everything from home cooked meals to back rubs. Those skanks were all over him. Two, not one, but two even went so far as to sit their narrow asses on his lap and wiggle as one did the other chose to bounce. I was a slut and they embarrassed me, for him though my embarrassment seemed a bit wasted considering he loved it. He seemed to bath in the power he had over those young ladies.
Carl seemed to take a special interest in me because I was not interested in him. He would come over almost every evening while my beau was away just to talk. I was fascinated with his job, a mortician, so I was a good listener. I was a good place to dump his days stressors because nothing he said grossed me out and I was not flinging my tits at him while he talked. Besides, at my apartment he could hide from the predatory navy wife sluts and drink his beer or wine in peace and he always shared. No matter how intoxicated he got me, I never showed an interest in him and that seemed to keep his interest or perhaps it was the never ending stream of young hotties. male hotties that came to visit me. and I was never insulted when he would leave with them to take them out clubbing, over to his apartment to show off his toys, those being weapons and the bells and whistles that goalong with weapon s collections. He certainly knew all the right things to say to get them interested even knowing he was gay.
He did not scare them, even when they were homophobic because he was all man, a manly man and never flirted with them , at least not in front of me. In fact the only one I ever saw him flirt with was my guy at the time and that was l in perverse fun, Carl loved watching him turn pink from head to toe, he was a red head so it was a pretty easy feat.. Around six foot three and all muscle and absolutely no stereotypical traits. Well other than being obsessively clean but I do not know if that was him or the navy wives who cleaned for him, hoping to get his attention.
The sick part of all of this was I really liked Carl and it is only now that I am older that I know what he was.
Like any predator he chose where he lived for the easy pickens. We lived in a never ending party pad where young men constantly got so drunk they had absolutely no idea what they were doing and were one drink from ending up in the back of his wagon dead of alcohol poisoning. I now know, Carl was well aware of this when he signed the lease.
You see Carl had been married, happily he thought. until his wife went cougar on him and left him for one of those young sailor boys. It was after this that , Carl confessed to me he decided to be homosexual because he HATED women. He made a choice and it was not something that had ever turned him on before., He had not been in any closet and never noticed men in even a whisper of a sexual way. It was conscious choice and he said " a woman's ass, an 18 year-old boy's ass, what's the difference"
He told me it was easy to get them in bed. Enough booze and pot, if they were so inclined, and he could have any sailor he chose. I watched him pair off with many, he sober them sloppy drunk, leave in his car. He said he took them to a motel he knew because he did not want to be disturbed. Him, a hotel and a bottle of grain alcohol and he had his way. I rarely saw the guys he left with come back again.
Except Kevin. Kevin, my friend, came to me and told me he though Carl might have had sex with him. He said after much silence that he knew he did but he did not remeber it. No one said the word rape. Neither of us thought it even when he told me of the blood in his "whites" in spite of the tears he gritted back. Like the rest, Kevin never came back. Never wanted to remeber what had happened to him on ocean view ave. He wrote me , like the rest of the virgins recruits that will remember me the rest of their lives, but his letters soon tapered off and I doubt his memories of me are as fond as the rest. I not only took his virginity sweetly but allowed another to rip another kind of virginity away from him savagely. Never, once, then, like him did I ever think he was raped and perhaps it was because I was still used to being used and did not see it for what it was because the same things happened to me all the time and I blamed me just as I am sure he does now.
I have known many homosexual men both before and since and never known another predator like Carl. One who preys on straight young men who were to ashamed to ever speak. Though Carl may have claimed he did this because he HATED women because of what his ex wife did I would take it to the next, obvious step. He saw in everyone of those young men, the man who took his wife and was to cowardly to face that and instead stole the innocence from those who trusted him.
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What a ghastly person!!!! I hope he's in jail!!! |
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Probably not, most men who aren't in prison have this "can't be raped" mentality. It's a sexual double standard that I think even I would succumb to. It's why it took so long for the abuses of so many Catholic priests to see the light of day. Most men won't even think about it as having been raped - rape is for people who have a vaj. Chances are this guy is either still preying on young men or has killed himself. |
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I've been so drunk at times that I was operating in complete blackout mode, but for the life of me I swear I'd be aware that someone was knockin' at the back door in spite of that intoxication. The act hurts like hell if you aren't completely relaxed...but then again I guess someone who is unconscious would *be* completely relaxed. BTW, our casualness with the subject matter on a few threads has gotten our buddy into another tizzy...oh dear, must we be called haters simply for refusing to believe that ALL homosexuals are just sweet fuzzy lil creatures? ~blows it off. And now for something completely different: If you have a thing for sailors, (and I know you like to welcome new bloggers here) you should check out my friend Steve, who blogs under the name of Ockhams Razor and only recently started posting here. http://www.blogster.com/ockhamsrazor/the-doctor-and-the-musician-a-dialogue |
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let me tell I have been there more than once. I am suprised really I can put down the bottle when I want to and not miss it :) Ihave woke knowing thoise places have been violated and not known who where or why. |
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I wouldnt know...its not something I have ever tried or wanted to....nothing appealing about it as far as I'm concerned...and if it hurts like hell, all the more reason I wouldnt wanna try it....and how can anyone be relaxed at the height of sexual excitement??...that doesnt make sense to me. Blowing it off is the best thing to do....life's too short. I wish people would just blow off my rants sometimes...especially when I'm having a funny five minutes...which is quite often...lol. Where did you hear that I had/have a thing for sailors?...lol. An Officer and a Gentleman...I just remembered....sshhhhh!!! I will go to that link and check him out...thanks little-whip. |
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That's a tragic story; but there are heterosexuals who will do the same thing to women....get them drunk, drug them and have sex with them. So, it is not just homosexuals who are guilty of this type of despicable behavior. Either way, it IS rape and should be prosecuted. However, as you say, the people involved are often too ashamed to admit what has happened to them. So, these predators get away with their little game over and over again. |
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I never once said it was just homosexuals. In fact I said it was the only homosexual man I have known in my lifetime who did that kinda shit and the only one I know who CHOSE to be gay, I do not, in fact, think he was. I also said, up there it did not occur to me to be upset because I was still being used in the exact same way and accepted it as NORMAL the price i paid for being a slut, a drugger and a drinker. I then never thought to call it rape for either me or him. I never once thought it was only gay men because let me tell you the number of men that would be in jail for doing this very same thing to me as a teenage runaway would number in the hundreds. I said this, how did you miss it? |
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No one EVER said it was just homosexuals. |
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No it hasn't been said, but what's been implied elsewhere is that homosexuals do not commit certain types of crime, and that's been more than thorougly debunked. |
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I wish you'd stop referring to youself as a slut or having been a slut..it sounds terrible and I dont think its necessary. So STOP IT!!!!! |
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Holly, I didn't miss it. This post just happened to remind me of something that happened to someone close to me when she was in college. I have personally never known many gay people other than those who are my friends here. But, I have known many heterosexual men who have tried to pull stuff on me and on others. Yes, you are correct. It happened to you and it has happened to lots of others. |
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Hehehehe, You flatter me, relaly you do, however my state of being is something that I take pride in. I used to feel bad being called a whore or a slut but those were the days when I was ashamed of what was done to me weather I was willing or not or liked it or not. Now being a Slave, you did know that right? I think I need ot write an article. woman, you make me work so! Now being part of the bdsm world thoguh not thrust into the lime light like I was from 20 to oh we will not go there(no age revelations) but for a few years and am now on the sidelines, slut is not derogetory. In fact it is one of the most begnin things I am called by my Dom and then only in private or with other adults of the same ilk or those who are accepting of the lifestyle. The internet is the only place I put my life style in other peoples faces , unless of course they ask. I may not say it but do not hide it either.
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Sorry, Holly. I didn't mean to offend you. I personally have never known a gay person; or if the person was gay, he stayed in the closet. Here in Oklahoma, the culture is still very, very conservative. I have been derided for being a liberal. No one in Oklahoma is supposed to be a liberal. So, my personal knowledge of this type of behavior is geared more to the heterosexual than the homosexual. |
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I have an article I wrote for great martin in the last year, I will find it and link it to you. It was about pedophiles which gave all the stats saying most all victims of both child sexual abuse and adult are women. All pedo bears are not gay in fact most are not because most victims are still girls. It is only for the sickest of pedos that sex does not matter and I would say they are neither gay or straight..........just sick. My main reason for writing this was to be cathartic but withheld it so I did not piss any one off , particularly Martin. The fact is it happened and only once in a long string of shady people I knew when i was their victim. From 12 on i pretty much raised myself and it was , strangly, BDSM that redeemed me. |
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You know eky and martin and they are a tiny sampling but a good one. They are both good guys. |
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I love Eky with all my heart :) He is like the brother I never got to meet from some distant land. |
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There is no one sweeter than eky. He has taken some horrible abuse and managed to stay the same good guy that he is. I don't know how he does it. |
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Oh, yeah...you did not offend me :) |
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Now being a Slave, you did know that right? I think I need ot write an article. woman, you make me work so!
No, I dont know that...what the heck do you mean???? My goodness girl...I MAKE YOU WORK???!!! I swear I dont know very much about you at all. Why on earth would you or anyone want to be a slave for shits sake???? AAARGGGHHH!!! |
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LOLOLOLO hheheheheh poor thing :) We will get you up to speed :) |
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I dont know if I wanna know actually.....I dont think I need to see that side of you...I'm quite happy with the holly I know now....if its all the same to you. Maybe we can have a chat (a private one....checked out that new feature tonight....you chat privately and nobody can join in) about it sometime. |
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Ahh, it is good for the blog :) and all over it anyway :) |
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heehee yes you make me work , you inspire articles daily :) |
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And Martin is another good guy. He gets in the face of those who abuse him a bit more than eky; but, hey, the guy is 73. I don't blame him. I am 66, so I can relate. By the time one gets to be our age, we are tired of the crap and we are not going to take it any longer. |
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There are two sides to every argument and just because one side disagrees with you does not mean they are out to get you or ruin what you have worked for. People can get to the same place on a different path. |
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That was not for you so much as what sparked this :) Sparked it for me at least |
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Holly, I understand exactly what you are saying. I used to be more tolerant than I am now. As I said, there comes a time in one's life when he just gets tired of trying to reason with some people. That's where I am right now. I don't necessarily think they are out to get me. I'm just not going to tolerate their BS any longer. The sooner they realize that, the quicker we can agree to disagree and go our separate ways. I'll leave it to someone younger and with more energy to try to lead them to understanding. |
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I only have a problem when someone tries ot silence me. If you want to silence me just block me. |
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@Maria, who said: "Why on earth would you or anyone want to be a slave for shits sake????" Lots of reasons, Maria, both physical and mental. If Holly writes about it, I suppose I could too. It's a shame they don't have a 'parental unit block' feature here, lol. |
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What is needed is a drop-box or a tag that allows you to not only select whether a blog is "controversial" but also whether the blog contains "explicit content" (or adult content, if you prefer). I believe Holly has blogged about such a feature as well. |
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Sheesh, I'd be happy to have a fully functional quote feature! |
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Yeah, but at least we can stick to using quotation marks for that for now. I think having the ability to mark one's blog in a way that prevents unwanted complaints ("this is inappropriate", "watch your language", etc.) would be a lot more useful. Still, it'd be nice if they made that little button work, right now it just sits there, useless... taunting me, waiting for me to use it and completely eff up the formatting. |
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I will again :) |
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what little button?
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The quote button, it doesn't do anything except shift text ><. |
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I suppose you could...it might make me understand or it might not..or maybe even make me REFUSE to understand it...maybe it's better if I dont know....lol
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This comment is meant for little-whip. |
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I also wish that new comments would go to the end of the thread instead of being inserted on the thread's tangental conversations, and a proper quote feature, (one that inserts the quoted text into a colored box containing the name and/or icon of the quotee) would clear up a lot of confusion. |
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holly and little-whip...the two techies (bobski and greg) are in the chatroom at the moment if you wanna ask them about this. |
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Thanks Maria, but I have to give my eyes a rest and am just making one more pass through before clicking off. |
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Where are you located?
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We had a homosexual senator a few years back. He was in the closet although almost everyone 'knew' he was gay. He would host these parties and hook up with guys. The reason why I know is that one of the guys he TRIED to hook up with was a good friend of mine who was also gay. A manly man gay guy who was in the showbusiness and doing modelling gigs for commericals and ads.
He sent a text message through our phones [there were 2 of us girls who 'knew' his secret]. My friend told him not to go with the senator inspite the promise of money. He didn't. But he was tickled pink by the thought of somebody as powerful as that senator, trying to pick him up. The senator left the place with two other boys.
As it turned out, an article came out in the tabloids about this guy who cried rape. That he was 'raped' by this senator and was left in a hotel a few cities away from where he was 'picked up'. The story died and nothing was heard of the next day. We asked our friend what happened. He said that the guys WERE indeed 'raped' while drunk ang drugged. They were sodomized in a very painful way. The term he used was "binasag ang kanilang mga pwet" which loosely translates to "he cracked their butts open". Our friend said that the guy was 'visited' by the senator's security guards and were offered money. It's either he takes the money or be beaten up and left for dead. That he did. For a sum of $2,000 USD.
There will always be 'bad' eggs that will make the good eggs stink as well. Sighs.