
The rest of the story...
Hmmm... not sure which story to start with. How bout the one where our anxieties got the better of us and we fought like cats and dogs enroute. Yeah... that was fun. NOT.
Visiting relatives can sometimes dredge up latant issues... or exacerbate current ones. Seems like every time we would visit his family there would be a price to pay. After this one, all I wanted to do was go to the nearest airport and fly home.
I didn't. He had just lost his mom! I know that grief comes out in ugly ways sometimes. We moved past it, but it did alter our plans, which didn't seem to be working anyway.
Our son who lives there had just left for China! The afternoon that we'd intended to spend with our grand daughter ... nixed because we didn't have a seat in the back of the van. We settled on coming around dinner time. And due to stress about who was watching the cat, decided to make that a day earlier than planned.
So we didn't get as much time with his sister as we had wanted to, but I think the visit we did have was pleasant.
We went to the funeral home for a last goodbye to his mom. We also looked at family photos. Her husband showed off his gorgeous old Buick, and model T. We learned things about their family that we didn't know before. The kind of things you don't put in Christmas letters.
I quit reading those letters a long time ago. I would have Hubby give me the highlights. I genuinely love this family, but it was hard to hear about SOOO MANY SUCCESSES while we were in the midst of so much turmoil all the time.
The drive home was without mishap. We took a couple little detours, just to see some different scenery. And to visit some favorite places... among them a special bicycle shop in Eugene.
I had wanted to see a 'Tiny House Village' that they have there. We saw two! They were a challenge to find, but it was worth it.
We drove home in the dark and arrived to find that our daughter had not only fed and loved on the cat, but had cleaned up the house as well!
I Slept all day Friday, and worked all day Saturday. I was grateful for the opportunity because this was a very expensive trip!
Have I mentioned lately how glad I am that I have a JOB? (Gosh... who says stuff like that?)
Anyway, we're back. Back to more drama that I may write about... or not. Hope you all are well.
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Oh Elmo... I have missed you! Thank you for taking the time to read this post. I know we will get back on even keel soon enough. I just had to put this somewhere... cuz it's been weighing on me. |
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I have missed you, too, Mags, and all my blogster friends! I love our little neighborhood here, don't you? And yes, that's what we're here for, so you have a place to put this! |
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Thank you for your kind words Dani! I'm just decompressing. I'm sure we'll be back to... 'situation normal'... (lol) soon enough! |
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Center for Appropriate Transport, aka Eugene Bicycle Works. It's a bit more than a "bikeshop". They conduct very cool apprenticeship programs |
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Yes, I know it as Eugene Bike Works, a very good place, and yes they do have cool apprenticeship programs. I guess I didn't know the first name you used. Bro. Doc |
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Yep... family is sometimes a challenge! (Or maybe ALWAYS!) You hit the nail on the head, though... about loving despite your weaknesses... AND THEIRS. |
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I've never had the hospital send me anything for Christmas, but I'm really glad they sent YOU something... if it made you feel like that! |
I haven't read your previouss blogs but I'm so sorry to hear about your hubby losing his mom. That's always a hard one. May she rest in peace, and I know you will be there to help hubby find some comfort and peace of mind.
What a nice surprise it must have been to get home and find those blessings from your daughter.
I'll keep an eye out for the next installment!