In this article I want to share with you some vital core elements to help you learn how to ask a girl out the right way.

You might be surprised to know that it does not actually matter if she says yes or no. The only thing that matters is if you create attraction with her or not. If she says "no" but you have created attraction, you have succeeded. Allow me to explain, if she is attracted to you and you know it because you have learned how to read the subtle little signals that women give, how easy would it be for you to ask her out again at another time? Maybe at a more appropriate time.

If she is attracted to you there is nothing that she can do to change her feelings. We as human being cannot control who or what we are attracted to, it is a basic law of life. Your only aim should be to learn the art of building sexual attraction with women, everything else will follow automatically and smoothly. If she is attraced to you the chances of her saying yes are of course much greater, she will want you to ask her out and be disappointed if you don't and you don't want to go disappointing women now do you?

If she says yes or no it does not matter the only thing that matters is if you know how to create sexual attraction with a woman, your ability to trigger her natural sexual attraction mechanisms will result in your success. This also makes rejection irrelevent because you will learn not to take it personally.  If you can create attraction then rejection does not matter. Rejection only matters if your confidence is low with women. Once you get this out of the way then you will learn not to personalise a yes or a no after all it is their decision about you not yours. Your decision about yourself can remain secure regardless. Success breeds success and elimates fear of rejection.

You appearance, your body movements, your language, voice tone and confidence is what makes the first impression. She will from an opinion  of you in about half a minute based on these factors. Confidence is not something you have it is something that you CREATE within yourself. You can learn how to create the correct posture and confidence before you approach any woman. Looking good doesn't mean expensive apparel or being attractive. It means keeping yourself clean, in a well presented manner and looking sharp. Working out and exercising is not for big muscles it is for the message that it reflects to women. Quality women will value that you take good care of yourself and pride in your overall appearance. Do you get it? Do you see the difference? It is not about being buff and handsome it is about sending a slightly different subtle message to her that addresses some of the core qualities that women are looking for in a man.

Men are attracted to women in a much more basic way then women are attracted to men. For men it is much more physical and they often make the mistake of assuming that women are attracted to men in the same way.

Women look much more deeply at the overall package they have a much more sophisticated way of choosing a mate their sexual attraction triggers are not based on physical looks as much as mens are. To women looks are just one part of the overall package. It is not uncommon for an ugly dude to have good looking women (if he has skills). We all know that it is uncommon for a very unattractive woman to have the hot guy.

This is one area where men have a huge advantage when courting, it is gods gift to YOU as a man.

Some tips when talking to women, tease them in a light hearted way, make them feel comfortable and make them smile. If you meet or date a girl you like, make the whole thing a playful little joke not a serious big deal, don't be shy to joke with her as if you were an old friend. This also alleviates pressures associated with dating. It tells her that you are cool, casual and that you “get it” when it comes to women. I have heard it said that if you can make her smile then you are 90% there, I agree with this. If you can make her laugh and smileand she is having fun then that means that you are fun and fun is attractive to all girls.

When asking a girl out remember there is no such thing as a "perfect time" you can however obviously time it more appropriately. Do not ask her out when starting the conversation. The best time to ask a girl out is after she has become sexually attracted to you. It makes sense doesn't it? Learning how to do this is the single most rewarding and fulfilling thing that you as a man can do in life. I believe this is how we as men should all be around women but very few men actually are.

Once she is attracted to you and you know it by being able to read her body language and subtle signs (the body never lies by the way) just casually make a suggestion to catch up or tell her your plans and "invite" her along, no need to ask for anything.

Just naturally throw it into the conversation. This my friend is how you ask a girl out smoothly and easily, by not actually asking at all. Just make a suggestion as if you would casually to an old friend or give her an invitation as if she has done something right and you are rewarding her for it. I am always asking "do you get it" after teaching any core principals about women because this is how it works. One day you will wake up and just "get it".

I wish you all the very best of good luck learning how to ask a girl out the right way.

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