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Do you think I’m sexy?
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Have you ever found yourself attracted to somebody on-line?
- Yes, I have…
- No, I have not…
- That’s private, piss off…
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Because they look HOT!!!! |
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I find people attractive for their minds & hearts mostly... |
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Minds and hearts can'r look HOT??? I don't know what you were thinking! LOL |
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I delve into the gutter from time to time...sorry! |
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I'm not an old queer yet I have found attractive women on-line... |
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lol.... yes. I guess it is the mystery. Secondly..it's the imagination. When you're online, unless you skype a lot...everything's up to the imagination. That can be pretty stimulating...mentally, that is. |
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mentality, that is...you're so funny Rica. But you're right, there's something mysterious and I think somehow intimate about an on-line encounter that isn't there in the real lif encounter...Thanks for commenting! |
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Better to be attracted to someone online, knowing about who they really are, than be attracted to their outward appearance across a smoky bar while half drunk. |
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Well said...but untnil you actually meet somebody on-line, can you really know them? |
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I met my husband on line. :) |
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That's cool...how long have you been together, how did you meet? I don't mean to pry but i think it's just fancinating and so interesting....Thanks for visiting! |
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We met on my space.:) My daughter made me a page so she could chat with me... he found it. I posted photos on there like I do here and had a silly blog. The funny thing is he lived only 2 miles away from me. After meeting each other on line we went to coffee and the rest is history.:) |
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That's a great story! I'm very happy for the two of you... |
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I am too. All the time we lived so close by but never met before, guess we didn't go to the same places at the same time. When you think of it, isn't much different than bumping into someone in a store or something. |
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I find that certain people whom I met online, as friends. I would like to meet in person. Yes, there a few I find attractive. But I prefer personality and character as a mean of Attraction, rather than the looks. I don't like when people who have low self-esteem. And, think they are not beautiful, in which they are. They just need to have a positive outlook about their inner-self as being beautiful. Not what's on the outside. I know I have a beautiful soul. I may not be George Clooney, but I am darn close....lol (j/k) |
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Wll said, sir...and you aren't George Clooney? Fooled me...lol!
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Hahaha! Nope, not me. That must be you, right? But seriously, it seems these days, everyone wants to "look" sexy. And, I guess it's all fine and dandy. But to be honest, it's just a waste of money to get a breast implant, so you can have the best looking breasts. Or diet yourself to death. And, all that crap! lol But seriously, if you just look at yourself in the mirror, and just see how beautiful you are. You don't need all that, to be beautiful. Just as long as you are smart and have a heart, its all the beauty tips you need. If I am not mistaken, I believe that most women actually prefer that in a man. They even consider that "sexy". As for the guy, if she doesn't have the body or sex appeal, she is not worth the time. And, that's the wrong stereotype to give women these days. JMO |
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A well respected opinion! |
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I dont find people online sexy... I am not looking for anyone therefore being happy in my relationship I dont feel the need to be looking for someone sexy. I hate that people need constant attention when they post pics of themselves only in their best! I believe if you saw most of the people you think are "attractive" just being themselves everyday they may not be "sexy" anymore and you may not be interested in them! people these days are all about the front! They want you to like them for who they want to be not who they are. I dont want to offend you because your opinion is something a lot of people have! But what you see is may not be the real thing. :) |
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What you see is not what you get, both on-line and not; people are so complex, layers of emotional and spiritual textures and it takes time to find the real person inside, sometimes...Thank you for leaving a comment and stopping by, hope to see you around again soon! |
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I don't know why that is exactly DPhilip. I think Rica basically has it right with "imagination" being the motivation. Some type of fantasy per se. I'm happily married as well, but I have been attracted to various peeps online. Not that I'd ever act on it or anything, but it's kinda like an escape from reality. I think people in this type of atmosphere can be more open, honest, and relaxed. Not having to worry about rumors being spread like wild fires around your circle of friends. People can be judgemental on here, but they also can be empathetic. It depends on your situation, and how it relates to others. Some people may try to play a persona who they really not, but I think for the most part, people just be themselves. It's not even about the looks, people's personalities can be sexy as well. I mean in this type of forum it's mostly about written words right? |
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Nothing is sexier than dirty mind...LOL! I agree, I think there's a connection to be found on-line that is more difficult to find when people are face to face. People are more candid, perhaps, people feel safer to be their real selves and that is an attractive quality. Thanks for stopping by today! |
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I've met a few fine ladies online and even have a couple that I still converse with through web cams. (Not the "pay to see" kind either) lol |
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I have met some good people, both men and women, via online sites...never used a webcam though... |
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We didn't at first either. We got to know each other through messages, then on phones, then we used web cams. It was a pretty nice way to get to a comfortable level with each other. |
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I agree with up there... only old creepy men go online in search of finding attraction with someone they have never met. |
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i agree |
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I have been attracted to only 2 people that I met online, Still both really good friends to this day. |
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There have been a lot of posts recently about friends on line, meeting people on line and finding relationships through Social Media sites like myspace, facebook…even blogster! I know a few people who have met and fell in love from an on-line relationship, I know people who have simply hooked up with people from on-line and I must admit, despite being happily married, I have found myself attracted to a few people I’ve encountered on-line. I wonder why that is…any insights?