If this photo is a photo of you, I would offer that you are a lovely young lady. I would like to add something that I told my customers during my employment at an upscale menswear store. Its not new, but something I read elsewhere. That is: "The way you look has a lot to do with the way people look at you." 

Fair or unfair, right or wrong, people (who don't know you) judge you by your outward appearance. What they think should be of no concern to us, but we can feel bad if we left the house with an wrinkled shirt, dirty shoes or clothes with holes - fashion statement or not. When we look our best, we FEEL our best inside and you'd be surprised at how much better you feel about wearing new clothes. When I was in school, the first day of school was always the best day, because all my clothes and shoes and socks were brand new. So were those of my friends, so we all felt good about ourselves - at least for that day, anyway. Additionally, if I may be so bold, being clean is infinitely more important to appearance. When we eliminate the areas of other people's critique, they have nothing to talk about behind your back - especially when they don't even take the time to meet and understand the real person you are. I'm a grandpa and have three lovely granddaughters - two of which are in high school and they struggle with the same thing.   I hope this helps with you poll.  Have a good day.